Monday, December 12, 2011

How To Tell If A Man Really Loves You: 3 Most Important Signs

By: Sarah Nichols
There are many ways to tell if a man really loves you or not. Men have got the habit of leaving clues around which can easily be interpreted by women. It is up to you to be wary about such clues and find out their meaning for they will prove whether a man really loves you or not. Below are the 3 most important signs that you need to observe first to know if a man really loves you or not:

How to tell if a man really loves you - Sign 1: The Tell-Tale Signs

If your man really loves you, he will be punctual and act with you in a gentle way. Has he remembered to wish you on your birthday? If the answer is yes, it means that he has taken the pains to remember the same and that he really cares for you. Men who really love their women take great pains to remember their favorite things. They will remember your favorite colors and when you go to dine out with them they will order the dish that is your preferred one.

You just need to observe. If he has opened the door for you, it is a gesture of his love for you. If he loves you, he will never hide anything from you. Remember actions speak louder than words.

How to tell if a man really loves you - Sign 2: That Extra Special Something

If your relationship has just started and you man takes pains of going out of his way to do that something for you, you can be rest assured that he loves you a lot. He has to go to an important business meeting and yet does not mind running an errand for you, ignoring the fact that this might delay him at the meeting. This goes a long way to show that he really cares for you more than anything else in the world.

How to tell if a man really loves you - Sign 3: Reaction of His Family & Friends

What are the reactions of his family and friends towards you? If they make you feel at home and are warm in their approach towards you, you can be rest assured that he has sung praises about you to them. This again points out to the fact that he does love you. The small gifts that he gives to you also go a long way to express his feelings towards you.

However if you do not observe any of these things, you can be sure that either he does not love you or that he loves you but is too shy to proclaim the same. Look at his reactions. He tries to make eye contact with you, but removes the same the moment you look at him for a period of time.

In this case you have to be bold and take the initiative. Talk with him and make him feel comfortable in your presence. A small hug or a kiss will go a long way to dispel his nervousness and make him more comfortable in your presence. Once his initial inhibitions have been removed, you can be rest assured that his feelings towards you will become warmer and he too will start reciprocating your love.

How to know when a man loves you

Because of the nature of human, which can be traced to creation, it is often difficult for us to know exactly when our partners truly love us or not, however, certain modalities aside love spells, stand as a good test to determine how much love our partner have for us at a given time and circumstance. I am quite sure that sometimes in our lives, we have been stocked in the middle of a relationship, not knowing what to do, whether to move front or to go back; our mind is just confused on what to do or what not to do. This always arise as a result of either insecurity of the mind or past negative experiences, which often leads to the destruction of trust in people thereby making it difficult for us to ascertain the veracity of our partner’s love for us.
Have you been wondering and bordering if that man or guy you are dating loves you? Now is the right time for you to know exactly if he loves you truly or not. I know by now, you are pondering in your heart; what is this guy going to talk about that I have not heard in the past? But I tell you, relax! All you need to do at this time is to adjust your reading glasses, take a whooping sip from your juice drink, and then clear your brains off every doubt, then read on.
This article will let you know if that guy really loves you, or if he is moving around sleeping with other girls in town. All these knowledge are for free, just because you are eager to help your relationship excel. Now that you are prepared to know the truth, I would like to ask you few questions: Is your mind ready to explore with me, these twenty-first century secrets to knowing playboys? Is your mind clear from doubts? Do you believe that true love and fake love exist? Then follow me, but please, don’t let him know you sneaked out with me, for a lesson on this topic, ooh! He may get me jailed for life, how then will I continue my hobby of helping ladies become happy in their relationships?
I am also aware that some good girls are out there seeking desperately to find a man that will truly love them. If you are one, don’t lose faith yet, you can still find love.
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Back to how to know if a man truly loves you
Now, I want to let this heaven loose by the way…firstly, I tell you, if a guy loves you, definitely, his feelings must be clearly reflected in his behaviors, expressions, passion and actions alike. But if he doesn’t reflect this love for you through these mediums, ha-ha… he might be one of those playboys. Don’t judge him yet, to avoid jumping into a hasty decision which might turn out to be a generalization fallacy. Be patient.
One obvious sign to look out for I: if a guy loves you, his dressing style changes from personal to your favorites. Now examine this little change, before you met him, how does he normally dress? Is he a guy that cares less about the way he dress? Is he a type that just put on whatever he sees, in the name of wearing a cloth? If yes, then how much has this dressing habit changed since your relationship with him? Is his dressing style now okay and impressive, both to you and your friends who used to complain of his mode of dressing in the past?
Secondly, how often does he like or enjoy glancing at you, when may be you are not looking at him or not aware? If a guy likes you, he will always love to steal some look at you, especially when you are not aware, which you may often catch him doing, and if eventually you caught him, does he normally shift his eyes to avoid you knowing that he was looking at you or does he just frown at you? This is another good sign of knowing that a guy loves you, or is admiring you.
Thirdly, how often is he ready to help you out, whenever you get entrapped in a particular sort of trouble, does he sit back and just watch you suffer in pains or does he offer his hand for help; a good sign of love.